Saturday, January 16, 2016

Koinonia 2: The Redemption is Real!

It’s funny how certain themes can follow you for weeks at time, speaking to you in the most unlikely ways. A little more than a month before I went on my first Koinonia retreat, my English class was discussing a scene in William Faulkner’s The Sound and the Fury which involved a sermon given on Easter Sunday. My professor said that some people saw this as a scene of Christian redemption. He said he was a materialist and didn’t believe in redemption, but that he saw how people who did believe might interpret the scene that way. Now, as far as Faulkner’s novel goes, I don’t see one bit of redemption. I feel like that concept would be foreign to the story. However, this class discussion got me thinking over the next few weeks: Do I believe in redemption?

Googling the word “redemption” gave me the following: the action of saving or being saved from sin, error, or evil. Jesus died to take away our sin. How many times do we speak and hear this phrase in a day? It rolls off the tongue without even a thought. In another unlikely moment, my fellow teaching assistant (who is from Russia) told me after class one day that she had never understood why Jesus had to die on the cross. It was a sad story and all, she said, but what did we humans get out of it? I told her very basically that Jesus paid the price for our sins and that because of his death and resurrection we humans could go to heaven when we die, as could all the righteous people who died before the time of Christ, who had had to wait in the realm of the dead for him to free them.[1] This was all so basic to me—I couldn’t imagine how anybody knew anything about Jesus without understanding the central point of what he did for us.

Without understanding, I say. Yes, I understood. But did I really? Looking back on what have been the things that have kept me Christian (specifically Catholic), over the last few years I would always say the Eucharist and the Resurrection. The idea of being freed from my sins was always there, always present, but apparently not as central to my faith as other aspects. But not to worry—I soon found myself in a situation which reminded me to better appreciate this central message of the cross.

I am a pretty regular confession-goer. I try to make it a routine (in the sense of a good habit) and never stay too far away from this sacrament. Over the past year, however, confession had become sort of a routine for me in the negative sense. My most absurd point was once when, according to my schedule, I needed to go to confession, but my mind was drawing a blank on what to confess. Always the same old stuff. Finally I ended up confessing not petting my cat enough! The priest laughed at (with) me, though as a cat lover himself, he understood how those lonely meows for my attention might plague my conscience…

A couple weeks before my Koinonia retreat, however, I actually confessed something of which I was very deeply ashamed. So ashamed that I would not go to any of our chaplains, nor to any priest face-to-face. That was the hardest confession I’d made in a long time, and the priest was actually quite stern with me. I came out of the confessional and sobbed through Mass, hating my guts—knowing I’d been forgiven, but not quite feeling it yet, and wondering where to go from here. I remember just staring at the crucifix in the chapel and thinking, God, you can change me. What else did you die for except to change me? What I had confessed was more of a sinful attitude than an isolated action—attitudes can be very stubborn, and I knew I couldn’t change it on my own. All I could do was dump my mess at the feet of the cross and beg God to transform it somehow.

On my retreat I was honored to hear some of the most intense stories of spiritual struggle and ongoing conversion I’ve ever heard in real life. At this point in the weekend, I became very aware of the fact that faith is not just a game or pastime, and that the message of the cross is not just an inspirational quote. (Actually, this kind of made my retreat.) As luck or the Holy Spirit would have it, I was scheduled to lead a discussion section on St. Augustine’s Confessions the very next Friday. I don’t think any TA was ever so on fire while writing her lesson plan! I wanted desperately to convey to my students the immediate relevancy of Augustine’s story of conversion, which is so completely contemporary despite the fact that so many of the students found his writing style boring because of the many bible quotes and “repetitive” exclamations praising God.

To adapt our discussion of confession and conversion to the secular classroom, I referred to the confessions of politicians, TV personalities and nationally known convicted criminals. I asked my students how believable they found these confessions and (sometimes) subsequent conversions, and whether or not they believed that personal change on the scale of the Confessions was possible. One section was more optimistic, the other more skeptical. I also asked what society’s reaction to certain conversions said about our collective belief in personal change. While we discussed the story of Kelly Gissandaner, for example, who was executed in Georgia last year for plotting her husband’s murder but who experienced a conversion through studying theology in prison, one of my students exactly stated the point I was implicitly trying to make with that example: a society that supports capital punishment is not one for whom redemption and conversion are real, because it would kill even those who have reformed their lives (supposedly the point of the prison system). This, however, is just one of the many ways by which we can measure our belief in God’s transformative power. Every day we are met with plenty of less dramatic opportunities to forgive others and to work with God in bettering ourselves. To every Christian (including myself) for whom the Cross is in danger of becoming a mere ornament, I would ask the question inspired by my atheist English professor: Do you believe in redemption? How are your actions, choices and attitudes formed by this belief?



[1] For a solid introduction or a rich refresher on the redemptive aspects of Christ’s death, see the Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraphs 599-623. For his descent to the dead, see paragraphs 632-637.

Koinonia 1: Paroles de Dieu

I recently had the opportunity to attend my first “Koinonia” retreat here at the University of Illinois. “Koinonia” is Greek for “community” and a key aspect of the retreat is for the participants to feel God’s unconditional and boundless love for them through the community that is created before, during and after the actual weekend of the retreat.

I love retreats. In high school I tagged along on every class’s confirmation retreat because I liked my own so much and because there were no other retreats offered. As the years pass, though, I tend to expect more from every retreat I attend. Some deeper theological insight into my faith, some knowledge I didn’t have before, some emotional revelation during adoration, some intellectual puzzle finally solved. I’m not sure if I received any of these things on this retreat, except maybe the knowledge of some new Greek words. Reflecting on what made the weekend so special, then, I resolved that it was the fact that I was in that specific place at that specific time with those specific people.

The linguist Ferdinand de Saussure once made the distinction between langue and parole. Langue is the system of a language—its grammar, its rules, how it works. For example: the knowledge that adjectives describe nouns. Parole is a single act of speech: unique, in time, unrepeatable. For example: I tell my little sister “Happy Birthday!” at 9:47 am on the morning of her sixteenth birthday. This is the (admittedly nerdy) distinction that came to my mind as I thought about my experience of the retreat. Basically, I know that the Eucharist is the body of Christ. Transubstantiation etc. But what I didn’t know was the longing for the companionship with Jesus offered by Communion that a friend felt while going through a difficult time while she was still finishing RCIA (classes to become Catholic).

Being on team for one of the upcoming retreats has reinforced for me the importance of every individual on a Koinonia retreat. Since our first meetings were pretty close to finals, I got a little weary of the many icebreakers and getting-to-know-you games, which seemed to take up so much time. But getting to know people really is half the point of the whole endeavor, at least as far as I’ve understood it. Getting to know real people and how they live the sometimes seemingly abstract truths of the faith in their daily lives.

St. Ignatius of Antioch, an early Christian bishop and martyr, referred to himself in his Epistle to the Romans[1] as an “intelligible utterance of God,” which the commentary explains as “an expression of the Gospel; a manifestation of the divine purpose.”   Interestingly, utterance is the word often used to translate Saussure’s parole into English.[2] Catholicism is (happily, in my opinion) a very systematic religion. Studying the theory of this system can be the occupation of a lifetime, and can be quite fascinating for theology aficionados. But staying at this level, which is necessary but, like grammar class, preparatory in nature, would be like studying a foreign language as langue all your life, without ever actually using it as parole. An individual human life is the concrete expression of the theories which form the grammar of our faith, Christ being the most perfect expression of all. In this sense, we are all words of God, spoken unrepeatably into history, and coming to know each other in community is one of the most profound means of studying and contemplating the One Word—good to keep in mind during the next awkward icebreaker!




[1] Translation by Maxwell Staniforth in Early Christian Writings: The Apostolic Fathers. Penguin Classics, 1968.
[2] Phillips, John and Chrissie Tan. "Langue and Parole". The Literary Encyclopedia. First published 08 February 2005. [http://www.litencyc.com/php/stopics.php?rec=true&UID=662, accessed 16 January 2016.]